Why am I a bad lover?

Lady Gaga - Bad romance

People has told me multiple times, why am I a bad lover. & I'll try my best to debunk some myth here, if possible!

(p/s: I put up some unedited photos of myself for the first time, straight from my Mac's photobooth since some people said I did too much editings to my photos!, okay lo!)

Myth 1. I am a Control-freak with a capital C!
Well if I care about someone, alot, I'll automatically start to ask alot of questions, including, who are you having lunch with? why are you half and hour late home? and why did you late in replying my messages? Its not like I want to control, I am just extra-worried and I cannot help myself from not knowing everything and all that is happening to you. Of course if I dont care, I just dont. And I am an extremely sensitive guy and I would have notice why you ordered fish today for dinner and not your usual favourite beef, please, its not I want to control what you eat, I just want to know why you've changed? But I can't help the occasional, and please, OCCASIONAL browsing through sms, just like many other partners, its just normal in relationship! And asking about your email and facebook password, is because one day if you might have forgotten it and if you developed Alzheimers, who else know?

I where got scold people? I am a sweet guy!

Myth 2. I like to scold my lover!
Erm, have you ever heard of a chinese old phrase? Beating means care for you and scold is love? I want you to become better, and maybe the way I said it can be more gentle, but I am an emotional guy, so sometimes my tone and voice can be just a little louder than usual. Again in my defense, I could just let you repeat your same old mistake and will not point out anything but I care, I really do care!
Okay, sometimes I did it in front of many people or strangers, but again if you dont make any mistake, you won't get scolding, just plain simple!

Control Freak meh? Care-Freak got la!

Myth 3. I always take charges, make decisions for my lover!
Who doesn't? I mean, I am an extremely flexible person (not physically la) you can bring your points to the table and I love to debate, but most of the time I'm still correct. But I'll give you a chance to proof me wrong but if you can't then lets just make the best decisions. I wouldn't let you make bad decisions and regret them later. Have you heard of "not pointing out the mistake is also part of the problem? for one, I am not the person who will let bad decisions or mistakes go pass me by, and act like I didn't notice them!

Drama Queen? Who?

Myth 4. I am extremely EMOTIONAL and DRAMAQUEEN
Oh my god! >.<" okay I am not going to debunk this, this is not a myth. Sudden lost of apetite after you have said something wrong? done that. Walk away from you? done that. Cold treatment? my specialty. Okay, I'll work on this, I will.

Myth 5. I am a Big spender. I buy many underwears.
Erm, okay, its true also I'll admit it right here. But I do buy you nice gift too, no? You can share my underwear too, not all, SOME!

Okay, I can put a few more things here, but its okay, I just had a bad date today, and I'm getting tired already. Maybe I'll put up the good things about myself next. Night & hugs! Oh btw, emo music of the night!